"If a fellow isn't thankful for what he's got, he isn't likely to be thankful for what he's going to get." Frank Howard Clark
If you are anything like me, it's sometimes hard to be positive in a world filled with some "not so positive things"! For me at least, it doesn't take work to dwell on the negatives, but it does take effort to count my blessings"! While I was walking at the Mall today, I decided that I would start a new thing on my blog called "Thankful Thursday". This week I had thought about keeping a daily journal of blessings. This is kind of right along the same line with that idea. I want to cultivate an "Attitude of Gratitude"! This is just one of the ways I plan on doing that. I am trying to live life in the present rather than in the past or future. So when I list the things I am thankful for on my blog each Thursday, I will focus on things I am thankful for today and this week, not what I'm going to be thankful for next month. So, here are the things I am thankful for (in no particular order) on this first "Thankful Thursday":
I'm thankful that this Father's Day was the 1st Father's Day I had a Father-In-Law. This Father's Day was the best Father's Day I've had since my Dad passed away in 1999. It wasn't that I didn't miss my Dad this Father's Day, cuz I did. I think anyone who has lost a Mother or Father feels the loss much more acutely each Mother's Day or Father's Day. It's completely normal, no matter how long it's been since your parent passed away. I decided to honor my Dad's memory by going to visit his grave. This Father's Day was different than the past 12 Father's Days, in that this was the first year I had a Father-In-Law. My husband and I took him out to eat and celebrated the fact that he was out of the hospital! Not only do I now have a Father-In-Law, but I have a Father-In-Law who thinks I'm awesome and who has told Jonathan numerous times recently, "She is a gem! You couldn't have done any better! She is a real pleasure to be around!" It feels good to be valued so highly by an earthly "Father figure" in my life.
I'm thankful for so many hours of daylight. Yesterday was the Summer Solstice, which means that it was the longest day of the year! I love light! I love the long days! Summer is my best time of year and I'm thankful that it's here! I plan to enjoy it! I have much more energy this time of year!
I'm thankful my Mom is a fighter and I'm blessed to still have her in my life. I saw her today while I was walking at the Mall. She was working. She continues to work full time. She has battled cancer for 12.5 years. She was first diagnosed at age 47 and she is now 59. She is a Survivor! :) She is currently getting 10 chemo shots a day for 5 days a week. That's 50 shots a week! They are very painful for her! Yet she still works full time and continues to smile and have a positive attitude. Continued prayers for her are appreciated!
I'm thankful my husband and I have the opportunity to work overtime at work. While so many people are without work, we are blessed to have the opportunity to work more hours, which means more money, which means we can pay off debt faster and have extra money for our upcoming vacation. We both have job security! :)
I'm thankful I have had today all to myself. I work on Saturday so I had today off work. It's so great to have a day to spend by myself! I love my husband and I also love having some alone time once in a while! I'm blessed! I went to the BMV to renew my plates, I walked at the Mall, and now I'm hanging out at home. It's been a great day off!
I hope my "Thankful Thursdays" will encourage you to also have an "Attitude of Gratitude"! :)
What are you thankful for today?
